I'm lost...

So last night I was watching this show on Discovery Health. It was supposed to be about the Centurion, which I was all interested in an in-depth explanation of what all is involved and such, and ended up being essentially a bio about the two people on the show with a brief mention of the surgery. Hell, they didn't even mention the name of the procedure, just Raphael's name. Anyway, my wofe was laying in bed watching it next to me, and she starts crying and carrying on, as she usually does when the subject comes up. By the end of the show, she was yanking her ring off and saying things like "I set you free." I told her to stop with the nonsense and go to sleep (it was 1 am and she had to be up for work at 7). As soon as she woke up she started in with the "I set you free" stuff again, this time without the tears. Of course she waited until I was sitting on the throne, and going to be there for a while. I told her that wasn't the time or place for such a discussion, and she left for work. Since she's only working 3 hours a day right now, when she came home, lunch in hand (I love being woken up to food!), she started again. I don't really know what to think at this point. I don't even know whether or not to take her seriously. I certainly don't want to lose her, but I can certainly see her point. She's pointing out that she's not straight (true), I'm not a woman (well, DUH!), and she doesn't want to be held responsible for holding me back from what I want to be. I don't know what to do. Should I accept her "offer," and take advantage of the opportunity to start my transition? *ripping hair out* Yarrrrrrrrrrgh!